Yes, I'm open
kevin   I have a friend who has been involved with married man.  We have talked to her and about it, and she admits that its wrong.  Her problem is, is that he is a Doctor, and she has become financially dependent on him.  She is blessed in her own right as she is an RN.  But being with this man for 12 years has made her very materailistic! She has tried to pull away, but when she sees somthing that she wants, she feels she has to have it and calls him to ask for the mony. This only encourages him. He only wants to be with her to impress his friends.  So when she calls, he always braggs that no other man can afford her , and she will never leave him alone. 

Things had gotten kind of hot as his wife was strting to hear about thier affair. So as a seft net! She started an affair with her boss, who is also a doctor! 

We have tried to show her that God has blessed her with a skill that she can support herself and her two teenage daughters. And make her see that her daughters shouldn't see her in this way.For they may try to do the same to get what they want.

She needs to learn how to rely on the Loard,f and the blessings he has put before her. Pray that her eyes will open and see this man for what he really is! And that she be more patient with getting want she desires.  

She balme her ex-husband for the way she is today. Please pray for her. And let her see that se can no longer use that as an excuse! She need to take control of her own life! Tue Aug 15 16:44:29 CDT 2000